When someone is in a crisis and you’re all too willing to help, you shouldn’t force that someone to spill to you a of the details of whatever he/she is going through. It’s not easy to describe and retell a story about the things that hurt you. You just simply have to let them be. Give them time. Make them feel your presence. Never force them, because the last thing he/she needs is some nagging from people who keep on saying they care but aren’t sensitive enough to somebody’s feelings